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Parents’ Energy Affects the Child at Conception

Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

Oakland, California | March 13, 2007

A`udhu billahi min ash-shaytaan ir-rajeem

Bismillahi 'r-Rahmani 'r-Raheem

Nawaytu'l-arba`een, nawaytu'l-`itikaaf, nawaytu'l-khalwah, nawaytu'l-riyaada, nawaytu's-salook, nawaytu'l-`uzlah lillahi ta`ala fee hadha'l-masjid

Although we are not fasting, but we are intending at least to fast during the time we are sitting here, not to speak from backbiting. Siyaam from backbiting.

We were speaking in last association that Grandshaykh was saying that the best knowledge to learn is the medicine and as there is medicine for the body there is medicine for the soul. So anyone wants to know can go back to the previous session.

Grandshaykh said that Allah is Just, Adil. With his Justice, he gave everyone according to awliyaullah, gave everyone a long life. A life that is going to be long in a way that to people to worship more, as long as your life is longer as much your worship is more. As much as your life is less as much your worship is less. So he wants us to worship Him because He is The Creator and we are His servants. But what we see, we see that some people have longer life than others and some have less life than others, so what is the wisdom and explanation of what Mawlana has expressed is that it is important to know that as much as you do as much as you achieve. If you do less you achieve less. If you do more you achieve more.

And he gave an example like when you have a watch when you turn, when you wind it, there are watches that you can wind them for three days, 4 days, 5 days, you can wind hafl, wind, you can wind a full wind, or you can wind as much as you like. So as much as you wind as much as that watch works. If you keep winding it, it will keep running, it will never stop. Like a battery, when you charge it, it is full-charged. Let me look at that one, it is still working. When you don’t charge it stops.

Similarly for human beings. Allah gave everyone a long life. If you wind your soul the soul will keep the engine of the body working. As much working. As much as you wind it, the life will be longer. As much as you have a defect in winding, as much your life will be less.

And he said, “What are the defects?” The defects are for example you forget to wind it, so you lose the charge. Sometimes you waste a lot of your energy or your battery that you are winding, you lose a lot of power of winding to keep the clock moving. So as much as we miss prayers, that winding is becoming less. As much as we do sins, that winding is becoming less. As much we backbite that winding becomes less. As much as we do of bad `amal you see our life is shorter and shorter and shorter. For that reason it will begin to take out of your life. One year, two days, … as it becomes less and less, then you will see that you are not giving the right medicine to your soul and the right medicine is to commit less sins and do more worshipness. When you do more sins then you are an oppressor and Allah does not like oppressors. And when you are an oppressor then Allah will take away from your life a… he said, “Be careful of your prayers, be careful of the way you are with the people around you. Don’t lie, don’t cheat, don’t make conspiracy.”

Everyone asks about his age and he must know that his age is becoming shorter and shorter because of his oppression. There is no way to find any kind of knowledge except to find the way to be polluted by all the sicknesses of the soul and sicknesses of the body. And these sicknesses are spiritual and physical.

If that, then why a child then dies, even though a child is ma`sum, protected from committing a sin? Why does a child die at an early age? He said “because of the oppression that the parents are showing. Because of the bad character of the parents Allah takes the child because he will be like them and affecting his soul and then he will be bad like them. Like the story of Sayyidina Musa (as) and the boy. What did Sayyidina Khidr (as) do? He killed the boy. Because he knows that the child will be oppressor so he took him away. And there is vice versa as the child who is under oppressor parents and Allah takes him while he is pure and clean. So he takes him because him because the child will…

And some children die in womb of the mother and they say why. And til today many different doctors say they die from this and they die from that. Grandshaykh said that they die in the womb of the mother because of the father’s oppression. He said any child that dies in the womb is because of the oppression of the father. He said Allah makes that child to die in womb of the mother. That is knowledge of the awliyaullah. If you want to think it in scientific way then don’t attend this session. That is something Allah gave.

That child is so delicate and so pure and will be affected by the father who is sleeping near the mother and that pollution comes and comes and makes the child to die in womb of the mother.

No shyness in religion so that is why we have to speak. From every time husband and wife are together a child is born, even you don’t get pregnant. In Judgment Day you will come and see hundreds and thousands of children behind you and you will say, “From where are all these children?” You are responsible for those children. And that is why he said that when you are with your wife you must be in complete ablution. First pray 2 raka`ats then with ablution. If not then shaytan will quickly go in and spoil that even or that meeting.

As I said today the plug is not working hard, and I was not planning to do a talk. But since professor is here I said I will speak a bit. And we continue tomorrow night wa min Allah at-tawfiq bi-hurmatil Fatiha.

So the bad energy of the parents will affect the progeny.

That is very important and deep explanation what awliya are saying. People don’t know that there is a problem of the father or mother that is affecting the children and say the child that affected the child.

If you have a very high voltage that will kill the person. So this negative energy will kill the child, if it doesn’t kill him it will affect him in his character, in his behavior. The womb of the mother is like a compete factory that is producing a complete child and building it according to the DNA which is like a blueprint that Allah sent to the womb. So if the parents are in a bad mood and not on ablution that bad energy will affect that child and make that child as if with no foundation or affect them to have bad character and to see them stubborn and bad character. Some children you see they are polite, very normal and very nice. That is because at conception moment there is a very good energy there and people must look into it as that is how a generation comes. If you want to build a good generation or not.

That is why before they used to live longer life. Now the average life is 60 or 70. before Sayyidina Nuh (as) was 950 years. Sayyidina Musa (as) 150 years. Bani Israil people lived very long time. Sayyidina `Isa (as) lived long time. Look at the remote villages and you see the people live very long 150 years, 100 years. That is because they live in a very good energy area, where their parents were and there is nothing there but woods, jungle, there is only rice, no disco, no bar, no night club. So they call this modernity and they call these remote villages uncivilized. So it turns out the uncivilized going to Paradise and those who are modernity are going to hellfire.

So who then is civilized. Those who are … going to go to Paradise are saved and they are in real civilization and modernity. There is no comparison between Allah’s’ paradise civilization and modernity of heavenly modernity, that no eye has every seen or an ear heard nor has ever been imagined in mind or heart that there is such things.

That is what they call modernity, that you didn’t see website or radio or television.

So un-modernity is those who never looked at dunya and they are happy with that rice and they were happy with what they have and Allah send to paradise. And the others who go to disco and striptease bars and all kinds of drinking and marijuana and all kinds of poison and they end up in hellfire. That is the problem of pollution in the womb of mother. That is why all this modernity is polluting the womb of mother.

That is why some awliyaullah are against ultrasound because that bad energy might affect the womb of the mother. The doctor is spying on the child. Allah doesn’t like that for someone to spy on his creation on his bringing up someone into life. He is building that life and build that child. He doesn’t like the interference of those bad energy doctors and especially today they look girl or boy to buy pink clothes or blue clothes and to put on the Internet “it is a girl or boy” and to that extent they are coming against Allah’s Will.

There it is under Allah’s thee layers of veils and there Allah swt. And they found that it is 3 layers or veils in the womb of the mother in order to bring that child nicely. Why are you bringing that bad energy vibration to affect its DNA or to affect its…

They do that to avoid being sued and now they have many reports that the ultrasound is problem for child formation and making defect in the child formation.

So spying on Allah’s creation spoiling the infrastructure of the child in the womb. It might be with this ultrasound one of these unseen:

خَلَقَ السَّمَاوَاتِ بِغَيْرِ عَمَدٍ تَرَوْنَهَا

khalaqa as-samawati wal-ardi bi ghayri `amadin tarawnaha.

He created the heavens without any pillars that ye can see; (Luqman, 31:30)

It might be pillars in the formation of the child that doctors do not know about so when you throw that ultrasound light it might be you are destroying one of the pillars that are part of that child. So when Allah creating that child that womb nothing inside, just like a space. Might be in future that science will find something later but might be you are destroying something that you don’t know about. Like the bees who can fly at night and they fly with UV vision and now they invent the ultraviolet binoculars.

That is why there might be something that you …

So they don’t like ultrasound and that is destroying the child in his behavior and destroying his future.

[I have 2 questions? Do you think even the examination that the woman should not allow the doctor to do the examination?]

If it is a lady doctor that is better. If it is for a necessity, in Islam there is a principle if anyone out of necessity has to break a rule, then you can do break the rule.

[my question is there bad energy to go into the organ?]

That is not accepted, [for a child or what?]

I heard for health reasons and if for a problem of a medication it is ok to check with the doctor; that is no problem. We mentioned in the previous session that medicine is ok as it will save the physical body from deteriorating.

[My other question if there is no incarnation in Islam, and we don’t have two lives, then when the child is affected by the mother and father…?]

No it is not. The energy is bad. But when you make a bad energy then you are affecting it by fighting before [intercourse] or by not having ablution.

[Why then is that child born in that family and the other one in the other family becomes so calm and peaceful? If there is no incarnation why do you have to pay?]

When the child is taking from parents then he is carrying for the parent to purify them in them for the next life.

That I will continue in the next session. So you have to come and continue attending the sessions in order to know what comes next.

Your question is correct, there is an explanation. That is why you have to listen to the 2nd or 3rd or 4th lectures. Why does the child carry the responsibility of the parents? There is an answer. And you throw the word “incarnation” in there. Why? Do you believe in incarnation?

[No, but I studied different religions.]

You have a different kinds of cycles of life.

We don’t believe in incarnation but we consider that there are different cycles of life.

[I read Qur'an a little bit and I understand that you are born and then you arise up again in Day of Judgment]

Yes, but we were in a different life before coming to dunya. Then we have life of the body and then we have life of grave. Then life of Judgment Day. Then life of separating the good from the bad. Then comes the life of hell and the life of heaven. Some continue in hell and some continue in Paradise. Thus there are many many different lives [but only] one life here, here in dunya. In incarnation they say all the lives are in dunya, on earth. But Muslims say there are different lives in different places.